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Coming Home

For some, the move home represents the end of ‘away time as play time’ and the start of a real focus on building their career. For others, having done the ‘big career’ or the ‘big corporate thing’ while overseas, the return might be an opportunity to scale back, work for themselves or, be more selective about where they choose to work.

Undoubtedly, an individual’s experience is inextricably bound up in the complex range of reasons they chose to come back in the first place. For those who have come for family, lifestyle or health reasons, even a less than ‘perfect’ job can be perfectly fine, if it facilitates the other factors. But for those who feel they didn’t really choose to come back and don’t really want to be here, even the best opportunity can fall short.

In this post, I’ll share some of the most common experiences, along with insights and tips on navigating a happier return to working in NZ – which may actually start with (re)framing how you think about work..

Consider the possibility that small can be beautiful

One of the great shocks about working in NZ is the smaller size and relative youthfulness of organisations, compared to overseas. The challenges reported here include: jobs with a much smaller scope than what you are capable of doing, smaller budgets to play with, unprofessional ‘cowboy cultures’ and, a sense of disbelief at how many NZ organisations are just starting to engage with the challenges that are considered more or less solved in other parts of the world.

But, there can also be great opportunity in these smaller, less mature and (relatively) less well-organised businesses that constitute NZ Inc. The less structured approach to organising may create more opportunity for you to have your ideas implemented than might have been possible in the highly formalised and hierarchical organisations you worked in overseas. The smaller size, and informal culture, can also mean it’s easier to directly influence those at the top table and, the breadth of roles that comes from working in leaner, flatter organisations may mean more opportunity for you to extend your repertoire of skills beyond your area of expertise – great for those with ambition and a growth mind-set!

Go for Glocal

A number of multi-nationals have also set-up shop in NZ providing an opportunity to join a relatively small local operation which is also part of a large global group. This can provide a great ‘best of both worlds’ experience for those who want to be part of a smaller, less formal workplace while staying connected to the wider world. This may also provide a ‘softer landing’ for your return to the NZ jobs market, especially if you’ve been away a long time. Ask local recruitment consultants who might be hiring in this space.

If you’re still overseas, and working for a multi-national with an NZ presence, have a chat to HR and see if there might be a way for you to continue to work for the company from NZ. Even if there is no specific role in the local operation, many multi-nationals are so keen to keep good talent that they will create a remote role if they can.

Don’t make assumptions

The most commonly reported ‘good surprise’ is that there are lots of complex and challenging roles available in NZ organisations. The less welcome realisation though, is that in many NZ organisations, are often missing two things – a strategic mind-set and the foundations for responding to these challenges in a systematic and sustainable way.

Organisations may have a lower level of capability to what you’re used to, fewer resources or, in many cases, simply lack the experience needed to know how to organise work in an optimal way. This can be experienced as a pro or a con, depending on how you are wired – for some, being able to build something from scratch is seen as a major bonus, for others a giant red flag.

Do your research into which industries and organisations might be facing the kinds of challenges you are keen to solve and don’t make any assumptions about what the organisation might already be doing or, what structures and resources are already in place. When interviewing, ask questions to understand what you’d be walking into and discuss your ideas to gauge receptivity before you commit to taking the role. The bluntness of Kiwis is of real value in this regard – ask a direct question and most people will tell you the truth!

Accept that not everyone has an open mind so seek out those who do

Unfortunately, despite the value that internationally experienced talent can offer in solving many of the challenges facing NZ business, there are still some who maintain a closed-mind to doing things differently. Many returners report a great sense of frustration at not being able to make as big a contribution as they can, because what they’re suggesting is not ‘the Kiwi way’.

The best way to avoid this unsatisfying impasse (for both sides) seems to be; seek out organisations that already have a culturally diverse, internationally experienced workforce – especially those with an internationally diverse executive team. These are most likely the organisations where you will find value placed on those who bring a global mind-set and, offer both a receptiveness to your different ideas and, the opportunity to learn from others who might also think differently to you.

Tapping into the wisdom of specialist repat recruiters like Home Recruitment is a good way to gain some on the ground insight into which organisations might be a good cultural fit. You could also try the Kea New Zealand LinkedIn group or the Kiwis Migrating Home Facebook group.

Expect that your criteria will change

With few exceptions, most returners report that it took trying out a few different jobs to figure out what they actually wanted to do. Some formalise this process of experimentation, by choosing to contract rather than look for a permanent role – something local recruiters often recommend for those who have been out of the NZ labour market for some time.

But even for those who don’t want to contract, it’s likely that the first job you take when back in NZ won’t be your last. A variety of factors contribute to this, including:

Short vs. long term goals: many returners report that, initially at least, they’re heading home in pursuit of the traditional ‘Kiwi Dream’ – home ownership, a couple of free range kids (or fur babies) with plenty of safe, outdoorsy space for them to run about in.

This may mean the first job is the means by which they make this happen – a permanent role with a decent salary in an organisation that’s unlikely to go bust AKA one that will satisfy the banks enough to secure you a mortgage. But, once you’ve got the roof over your head sorted and are feeling more established within your professional networks, you may decide to branch out and take on work that is a bit less secure – working with a start-up, freelancing or even starting your own business. Or vice versa.

Same job, different organisation – different organisational cultures, manager and team mates can lead to vastly different experiences of the same (on paper) job. Several interviewees reported that the first job they took was such a bad experience, that they considered leaving the country again. But, then the second job was so different that it changed their perspective entirely on whether they could build a new life in NZ. And, the more time they spent here building their networks, the better intel they gained about which organisations to approach and which to avoid at all costs!

The question of location: while a lot of returners choose to move back to the cities on the belief that these offer the best job prospects, the pursuit of a particular lifestyle may mean a move to a different part of NZ is on the cards at some point. Some returners actually formalise this process of ‘finding their home first’ by choosing to housesit around NZ for the first few months, only deciding where to ‘settle down’ and get a permanent job once they’ve had a taste of what’s on offer ‘lifestyle-wise’ in a variety of places.

Focus on what you can gain rather than what you have lost

Instead of bemoaning the loss of your overseas job or international career, try and think about what you might gain from working in NZ, even if it’s not where you want to spend the rest of your professional life. Many returners report that the experience they gained working back in NZ, has been hugely valuable a springboard for them to take up an interesting opportunity overseas.

For others, it’s an opportunity to build a life that doesn’t entirely revolve around the job. As Oprah Winfrey herself has said, NZ seems to have a pretty good perspective on how work should fit into life and, reports from returners confirm that this is the case – especially in terms of employers promoting the value of work-life balance.

Interestingly, while antiquated in some ways, there are also pockets of people practices in NZ workplaces that are seen as world leading, especially in relation to flexible working. Examples include the Perpetual Guardian experiment on the four day week – gaining attention worldwide and being adopted by more companies in NZ – and the government’s plan to close the Gender Pay Gap which includes the introduction of flexibility by default for all public sector roles.

Accept that not everyone has an open mind so seek out those who do

If you can’t find a single job that ticks all your boxes – and remember few people do – consider taking a more holistic approach to your definition of work. So, maybe you take a role because it pays the bills, and then get involved in some community work that’s more aligned with your sense of purpose, or carve out some time to pursue one of your passions.

By spreading the work around, you take the pressure off any one job to be perfect and in so doing you may actually find that start to get more enjoyment out of all of the work that you do.

This story was created by Tricia Alach, creator of the How To Have A Happy Homecoming blog, check it out for more stories of Kiwis coming home and resources for making a smooth transition back.  

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Tricia Alach

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Filed Under: Kiwi coming home Tagged With: career, Coming Home, jobs, Tricia Alach

With many returning to remote working under increased alert levels across New Zealand, working from home is becoming the new normal.

Technology advances allow individuals to virtually connect with colleagues, attend meetings and essentially operate in business as usual conditions from their home offices – be that their study, bedroom, beach house, kitchen table or beyond.

With remote working becoming so accessible and acceptable, the geographic constraints which usually operate in an employment relationship no longer apply. Increasingly, we are seeing individuals operating from a completely different country and time zone to their employers.

Since the closure of travel routes and national borders in March this year, over 40,000 New Zealanders have returned home. Some to shelter in New Zealand temporarily, others on a more permanent basis, drawn back by the comfort, familiarity and lifestyle that home offers.

Many are continuing their employment, working from New Zealand for employers in London, New York, Beijing, Sydney and other locations worldwide.

Potential tax issues to be aware of

For those taking refuge in New Zealand temporarily, COVID-19 concessions applied by Inland Revenue have enabled them to live and work here until such time as they are practically able to return to their home locations, without needing to worry about New Zealand tax.

Individuals are usually treated as tax resident in New Zealand if here for more than 183 days in a 12-month period (including time accumulated over multiple trips, such as holidays, within this window). Tax residence is backdated to the first day, rather than day 183.

The concession for individuals stranded in New Zealand due to COVID-19 travel restrictions ignores additional time spent in New Zealand, if that would otherwise tip them over the 183-day threshold. But it does require a person to leave New Zealand as soon as it is practically reasonable for them to do so.

Now that the borders are reopening, where it is practically reasonable for them to leave, individuals need to return to their usual home, or risk being subject to tax in New Zealand from the first day of their arrival.

Individuals choosing to remain in New Zealand create a tax risk not only for themselves, but also for their foreign employers.

Impact on foreign employers

In New Zealand, employment income is taxed in two ways; if you are tax resident, or if the income is sourced here because you are physically working in New Zealand.

New Zealand’s tax system does not have any territorial limitation. This means that a foreign employer will have an obligation to comply with New Zealand employment taxes, including registration and payment of PAYE to Inland Revenue, for any New Zealand based employees who are New Zealand tax resident, or if their income is sourced here.

Inland Revenue has recently issued a draft statement which potentially removes the obligation of foreign employers, that have no connection to New Zealand, to register as an employer and withhold PAYE on behalf of any New Zealand-based employees. Instead the New Zealand-based employees will be responsible for meeting any New Zealand tax obligations directly with Inland Revenue.

If confirmed, keeping in mind the position is in draft only at this stage (so care should be taken if relying on it), it will be a big change from the approach to date for non-resident employers.

It will also have significant implications for the New Zealand tax system, including the ability for Inland Revenue to collect the tax. Certain types of remuneration, such as fringe benefits, may be tax-free, if provided by a non-resident employer where they no longer have registration and payment obligations in New Zealand. This potentially creates an advantage for non-resident employers over New Zealand based employers.

Impact on employees

Being responsible for managing PAYE can create several complications, especially if individuals are still being paid through their foreign employer’s payroll, with employment taxes also deducted in the employer’s location. New Zealand based employees could find themselves double taxed until such time as they are able to claim a tax refund from the offshore tax authority. We are also seeing many foreign tax authorities taking the view that employment income is sourced in the employer’s country, even though double tax treaties and OECD guidance dictates that the country where the work is being physically performed has the primary taxing right. This will also create double taxation risk, if unable to be resolved.

Prior to March 2020 most cross border travel by employees was at the behest of their employers, who would also take the lead in ensuring that tax obligations as a result of cross-border working arrangements were being met. Where remote working is employee led, including due to COVID-19, individuals are often left to their own devices to resolve the complexities of determining how, when and where their employment taxes should be paid without the benefit of timely tax advice.

Being mindful of this and seeking specialist advice is recommended to ensure there are no tax fish hooks for either New Zealand-based employees, or their foreign employers, from new working arrangements arising due to COVID-19.

KPMG has prepared two helpful Tax Guides – Beyond Borders for Individuals, and Beyond Borders for Business Owners, which you can download for free.

If you would like to seek advice or to arrange your KPMG Kea Global Repatriation Package, our People Services team would love to hear from you. Please call Rebecca Armour on +64 9 363 5926 or email her at [email protected]

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Rebecca Armour

National Leader, People Services

KPMG in New Zealand

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Filed Under: COVID-19 recovery, Kiwi coming home Tagged With: Coming Home, Employment, KPMG, Rebecca Armour, Tax

Simon Adlam (right) in state-managed isolation.

Invigorating is how I would describe my migration. I’m leaving a country called home for the land that is my home, Aotearoa New Zealand. Current life in Los Angeles is a contained life – rarely leaving home and longing to see family and friends during this COVID-19 pandemic.

On a summer evening, I departed from an empty LAX airport along with doctors, lawyers, bankers, families, and even actors, all en route to NZ. I couldn’t help but notice subtle smiles from the passengers, knowing we were leaving a debilitating global pandemic and were now Pacific bound to our homeland. We all settled into a long flight heading into a welcomed unknown – isolated management and quarantine. Having been sheltered in place in Los Angeles since March for almost four months, I was actually OK with it.

A 5 am touch-down came with a huge sigh of relief and a round of applause for the crew. Sadly, it was their last flight for our national airline. After we grabbed our belongings and deplaned, we were greeted with smiles and “Kia ora – welcome home!” and “It’s good to have you back!” That cold early morning we moved through a health check, immigration, then onto buses to a destination unknown. We had no idea where we were to be quarantined. Then we arrived at The Rydges Auckland.

The friendly smiles, warm welcomes, and caring conversations continued as we were left in the company of government agencies, armed forces, police, and our pleasant hotel staff. Our fellow New Zealanders passed by yelling, “Welcome Home!” to our travel-weary bodies. I’d returned to the values-driven society that has shaped who I am and I have carried those values with me to all the countries and cities I’ve lived and visited. I was proud to be a New Zealander.

The 14-day quarantine flew by and the health checks, testing, and precise management of our comings and goings came off without a hitch. I made new friends and even though we had just met, we could all sense how paramount our responsibility to safety was to each other as well as to all our fellow Kiwis. The memorable years of my youth washed over me upon my return to Aotearoa after 25 years of being abroad.

I humbly say, thank you, my friends, for welcoming me back with open arms. It feels good to be home again.

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Simon Adlam

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Filed Under: COVID-19 recovery, Kiwi coming home Tagged With: Coming Home, Managed Isolation, MIQ, Simon Adlam

Mark registering for the Portland half marathon, 2019

Why did you choose to come home?

I’d been overseas for 16 years, the last 15 of which have been in the US. I was involved with the America’s Cup and Team New Zealand in the early 2000s and sailing was my sport, both as a sailor and as a design engineer. I worked in Rhode Island for a company in this field for 9 years, but I wanted more. I wanted my work to contribute more to society so I went through grad school in the US, a country that places a lot of emphasis on credentials. I went into management consulting and ultimately coaching.

Throughout that journey I was constantly grappling with whether I should stay, whether the US was my country or not. Ultimately, I learned that despite having American citizenship, culturally it wasn’t the fit for me and that the US is an individualistic country and it doesn’t align as well with my values. I crave and believe in contributing to a collective society, so that led to believing that New Zealand was the place I needed to be. The last few years I committed to learning as much as I could before I went home. Also, US grad school is expensive so I wanted to make sure I had paid off those debts before I left.

Ultimately, I’d made that decision that I wanted to return and it was just a case of when. Yes, Covid-19 sped things up but it was a journey of values and a need to be back into the New Zealand cultural environment that preceded that.

How did the Better Futures Forum come about, and how did you get involved?

Dr Catherine Knight and Dr Mike Joy have been the drive behind the Better Futures Forum. They were fed up with lots of the outcomes both environmentally and socially in New Zealand, which posed the question – could Covid-19 and the subsequent lockdown provide an opportunity for some real progress when in the past progress has been hard. Joy is a freshwater ecologist and has been an activist and spearheaded this work for so long. Catherine and Mike got talking and wanted to act, and so they reached out to their network and got a few people together.

I got involved through my network, which is how many good things happen. When I got back to New Zealand, I had the belief that if you know what your purpose is and how you want to provide, it’s less important to worry about what it actually looks like. By connecting with my network and talking about my why and my how, things sort of rattled out of the woodwork through suggestions people would make of things I should look into. Someone in my network shared the Better Futures Forum with me. As soon as I went on the website, I very much resonated with what they were saying and it was clear this was a group of like minded people that at the very least I needed to talk with and bring into my network. Once we connected, it became apparent that they had a purpose that I was driven towards. Through my coaching, it’s all about change and how change happens. This is the purpose of the forum, to create broad momentum to the transition towards a more resilient Aotearoa. In speaking to them, we realised that my skill set was quite different and complementary to theirs.

It’s pretty energising to see that people are acknowledging that we can’t just go back to business as usual, not in the sense that we have to go back to living in caves, but the acknowledgement that we are so incredibly hard on our land and our waterways and our planet. This has real implications for human health now and in the future, so it is such important work. I really hope that we can continue to build and create broad momentum for change, so that it doesn’t sort of dribble away to us getting back to how we were. The evidence is clear – big change is needed if we want to have a planet that we want to live on. Regardless, it is an incredibly meaningful and purposeful thing to put energy into, and it feels very aligned to my purpose of contributing to a more environmentally and socially sustainable world. It’s a daunting task, but also one that is incredibly motivating.

Covid-19 has been seen by many as an opportunity to radically change how NZ and the world operates. What opportunities do you see it offering, and for whom?

Historically, in times of crisis we know who benefits and who loses. Those who have means are benefitted, and those who don’t are further disadvantaged – trends we see reflected in other issues such as climate change. Going forwards, significant change would have to result from this for a different future to eventuate. This is one of the key things the Better Futures Forum is anchoring on – what would different policies and structures produce in terms of different outcomes, and how would some of those changes actually be implemented.

We have a history of myriad groups (NGOs, non-profits, government) trying to lead meaningful change to affect these types of outcomes, but in taking an objective lens not that much has resulted. This brings us back to the suggestion that we might be getting ahead of ourselves, that we should be focusing on prerequisites and the steps that come before change as a mechanism of actually achieving it.

Did you stay connected with the Kiwi community while you were living in the States?

When I first arrived in the States and was based in Rhode Island, the sailing community I was a part of meant that there was a constant stream of Kiwis coming through. However, when I went to grad school in Michigan that evaporated. By the time I got to New York, I ended up living with a Kiwi, and began attending events like the Anzac celebrations which helped me meet some fellow New Zealanders.

What opportunities do you think there are for returning Kiwis?

The short answer is that there are immense opportunities to contribute, especially with the skill set you have developed while being away. We all come back with our own specific perspectives and interests. Through my journey, whilst this is still a transition for me, I’ve become much more aware that our actions and aspirations need to be put in check a little bit. One way that we can do that is by thinking and working locally. I see a huge opportunity in contributing to my local hometown. I think the scale matches up with how change happens, and it is a much more personal or connected experience when it’s a smaller place. There may be a smaller range of things but I think when it really comes down to what’s important, it’s all here.

Are you finding anything challenging about the move home?

Personally, it’s a theoretical aspiration to be in my home town and close to family in Timaru. Theoretically, it’s exactly what I want but in practice it’s hard. I have spent so much of my life overseas and everyone else’s life has gone on without me just fine so there’s that reintegration into family that after 16 years that is challenging. Making that decision to be home rather than take the opportunity to embrace potentially more exciting opportunities is the trade off.

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Filed Under: Kiwi coming home Tagged With: Better Futures Forum, Coming Home, Consulting, Mark Kroening, USA

A couple of weeks ago, President Trump issued a proclamation banning certain types of visas from being issued, including mine. This means that I can’t enter the US until 2021. Today I’m going to tell you how I’ve been feeling about that. I’m going to reflect on everything that’s happened these past few months, from the first whisperings of coronavirus in NYC. I’m doing this because I want to live in a society where it’s okay to be open about how you feel, even if that isn’t always pleasant. There have been some days where I’ve been able to stay positive and look on the bright side. But there have also been days where I’ve felt too depressed to do anything. If anyone else out there is riding that rollercoaster, I want you to know that you’re not alone. This post is for you.

What it’s like being in the heart of a global pandemic

In the beginning, everything happened slowly. It wasn’t like in the movies where impending disaster is obvious. The general feeling in New York during March was that coronavirus was overblown and everything would calm down in a week or two. My best friends were due to visit me from Down Under in April. One evening, we called each other to discuss the trip. I was walking through the Upper East Side in Manhattan and the luxury stores had been boarded up. It was eerily quiet, but it didn’t feel overly unusual. We discussed whether Qantas would cancel their flights and quickly wrote that off. The possibility seemed remote.

Mayor de Blasio announced a one-week lockdown of the city in mid-March. In my mind, this solidified the belief that coronavirus was only going to be a short-term problem. My colleagues and I decided to take the opportunity to head upstate for a few days to do some strategic planning we’d been meaning to get around to. We thought that maybe we could even make bit of a holiday of it.

Once you start driving north of NYC, the landscape becomes extraordinarily beautiful. The skyscrapers give way to rolling green hills and it’s easy to pretend that everything is fine. I woke up each morning surrounded by tranquillity and felt peacefully removed from the growing tensions in the city. There was never really a moment when the pandemic started to feel ‘real.’ I watched the COVID-19 case numbers in NYC increase from 300 the day we left to over 10,000 by the end of the week. I saw Central Park and the Javits Centre – places I visited often – turn into temporary hospitals. A doctor shared a video of body bags piling up in a basement.

People I knew got sick, but it didn’t fully connect. I understood that terrible things were happening and yet at the same time I didn’t know how to process it. There was no playbook for how to react. It was all totally unprecedented and dissociation became necessary to stay sane. As the number of infections continued to grow, the truth became harder to avoid. The restrictions on public life meant that I couldn’t do many of the things I enjoyed and I worried about the future of the live events industry that I was working in. Gradually, my sense of stability disappeared.

I think I was subconsciously waiting for someone to tell me what to do. Jacinda Ardern announced a total lockdown of New Zealand and I assumed decisive leadership would be coming in the US too. Surely Congress would figure out how to manage the situation effectively when so many people were dying. But that did not happen. Instead, the President told people to drink bleach and the federal government delegated responsibility to individual states. This led to a fragmented approach where stringent lockdown laws were offset by half-assed recommendations. While responsible leaders like Governor Cuomo shut down New York, states like Florida reopened their golf courses.

The consequence was that some people didn’t take the pandemic seriously. For every person who diligently followed the rules, another flouted them. Wearing a mask became a contentious political issue rather than straightforward medical advice. It wasn’t long before the US became, and still is, the world’s leader in COVID-19. For a long time, it felt like I was in limbo. I wanted to believe that everything was going to be okay, even though reality suggested otherwise. I spent weeks grappling with how bad things would have to get for it to hypothetically be the right time to go home.

As the weeks wore on, I realised that there was never going to be a ‘right’ time. There is no justice in a pandemic. I had to make the best decision I could in the circumstances, even if that meant choosing between multiple undesirable options. That was the only way I could face it.

Why I decided to leave New York

New York was my dream. After setting a goal of moving there, I spent two years pouring everything I had into making it happen. I’ve chronicled the highs and lows I encountered on my blog. There were plenty of times I wanted to give up. But I didn’t, and by February 2020, I was finally starting to find my feet. It felt like a world of opportunity was opening up in front of me.

When I contemplated going home, I felt a great sense of loss. I didn’t want to leave behind everything I had worked for. Even though I knew the pandemic was outside my control, it still felt like I would be failing. I was adamant that I did not want to make a crisis decision I’d later regret because I wasn’t tough enough to wait it out. At the same time, I longed for New Zealand. There was fantastic leadership and I would have access to healthcare as well as strong support systems. I felt ashamed for craving security when I knew I was in a fortunate position compared to other people. But that seems silly now. I think almost everyone is drawn to the familiar in times of uncertainty.

There were ultimately three main reasons that I decided to come home. I’ve thought carefully about whether to make these public. There is a lot of debate in New Zealand questioning the validity of people’s reasons and I don’t want to be attacked. But I’m going to put mine out there because I think it’s important to challenge the narrative that repatriates are selfish traitors who should’ve come home earlier. I believe Kiwis should be supporting one another (here’s a Stuff article I wrote touching on that).

My first reason was plain and simple. My visa was due to expire. I was already going to have to exit the US in June. While I was planning on applying for a new visa, I would still have to be in New Zealand to get the final paperwork signed off and go to a Consulate interview. To this extent leaving was unavoidable. I thought it made sense to bring the date forward in the interests of my safety. While I was lucky to be in a safe place at my friends’ house upstate, I knew that I couldn’t stay there forever. I would eventually have to go back to the city and was concerned about catching COVID-19 there.

Masks were practically impossible to come by. Even a simple trip to the grocery store would be risky because NYC is too densely populated for proper social distancing. I lived in a small apartment with four roommates, who were often coming and going. My travel insurance (which I was forced to buy as part of my visa) did not cover pandemics and I was scared of not being able to access the notoriously expensive healthcare if I got sick. My mental health was also a factor. As someone who has previously struggled with this, I worried how I would cope with being confined to my closet-sized bedroom. Working would also be difficult without the space to fit a desk in there. I was well aware of my own limits and did not want to put myself in a position where I would feel at risk.

The final reason was financial. Without wanting to go into too much detail on this, I didn’t think I could sustain the cost of living. I was burning through cash upstate while still paying rent on my apartment in NYC. I had been through that kind of stress before and did not want to do it again. If coming home was the only way I could live a dignified existence, then I was prepared to do it.

My first few weeks in NZ

Arriving in New Zealand was a relief. I had a good experience with managed isolation and couldn’t believe how much calmer I felt in the Grand Mercure than I did in New York. I knew moving home was going to present some challenges, but those paled in comparison to the stresses of being in the epicentre of a global pandemic. My overwhelming feeling was of gratitude to be welcomed back to a country where the government cared about me.

I was super excited to be released at the end of my 14-day stay. After a year abroad, I couldn’t wait to catch up with my friends and family. It was a bit surreal at first to actually be home but I soon slipped into a routine. I worked remotely during the week and spent the weekends hanging out with my mates. When the lockdown rules were lifted, it was a novelty to be able to resume some semblance of a normal life. But I was secretly worried. I followed the American news closely and the coronavirus situation did not seem to be improving. COVID-19 numbers were at an all-time high and people were rightfully taking to the streets in protest of a system founded on oppression.

I observed the Black Lives Matter protests erupt all over the nation. I believed in the cause and felt inspired by the mass participation. But the lack of change also made me feel powerless. I read Anne Frank’s Diary of a Young Girl and the impunity she described in Nazi times didn’t sound very different from America today. I felt torn between missing New York and trying to accept that the city I love no longer existed as I knew it.

In mid-June, I started seeing rumours that President Trump was going to ban immigration. I tried not to panic. Similar rumours had circulated in April and the final proclamation was watered down from what was initially reported. I had to hope for the best.

A change of plans…

Trump issued Proclamation 10014 on 22 June. It was technically an extension of his announcement in April, suspending various kinds of visas from being issued until January 2021. The proclamation also contained a power to be extended further. Not only did this affect the J1 visa application I had submitted, it also covered every other type of visa that I could feasibly apply for. Going back to the US was no longer an option.

I didn’t really grasp the proclamation’s full weight at first. After so many life changes, I didn’t have the energy to confront another one. I went an entire week without thinking about it. I worked extra hours and spent a busy weekend with friends. It was only when I sat down at my desk the following Monday with this vast expanse of time in front of me that it sunk in.

I was devastated. I had no motivation to do any work and the worst part was that I felt guilty for even being upset. I kept telling myself that I had a lot to be thankful for, especially when people were ill with COVID-19. Six months in New Zealand wasn’t even that long! But deep down I knew that extension was likely. The proclamation meant the end of my dreams as I knew them, at least for the foreseeable future.

Making the best of things

Once I had digested everything, I called my team at work. The boys did the best thing they could have possibly done and told me that everything was going to be alright. They even cracked a few jokes, suggesting that maybe I should start the company in New Zealand. I left the call feeling a lot better. I felt glad to have their support. Later that day, I reflected on what they had said. Launching the business in New Zealand was a crazy idea, but the more I thought about it, the more it actually started to make sense.

New Zealand is often used as a test market for American technology companies. Historically, it was the first country to get Eftpos and it was also an early training ground for Uber. I think this is because it’s culturally similar enough to the US to gain valuable insights while also being small and isolated enough that the cost of mistakes isn’t sky high. There is comparatively far less red tape.

Plus, there is the added bonus that New Zealand is in a pretty unique position with zero community transmission of COVID-19. It’s one of the only places in the world where companies can operate with fairly few restrictions right now. Kiwis are open to innovation since coronavirus has disrupted our usual ways of doing things. This makes it an exciting time for anyone in business. So I’m now undertaking some market research. I’ve just signed up as a member of a co-working space and it feels really good to have a fresh sense of purpose. I can’t even begin to explain how revitalising it is to be in an office again. I miss my team in New York, but I’m excited to see what I can achieve here.

I think the next few months of my life are going to be interesting. There will probably be some days that will still be hard; where I grieve for the life I had in NYC. But I think there are also going to be good days. Those will be the ones where I feel driven about my work and grateful for the chance to reconnect with my country.

The one thing that’s struck me since I’ve been back in Auckland is how much it’s moving forward. With the opening of Commercial Bay and the entry of major companies like Google, AWS and Disney, it’s becoming a more global city. It feels like a good time to be here. Although I don’t know if or when I will be able to return to America, I’m happier in New Zealand than I thought I could be. I think that counts for something.

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The Extraction Plan

Several people Tricia interviewed reported that they had been thinking about making the move for a long time before they actually started organising in earnest. In a couple of cases, they had purchased property in NZ several years before making a firm decision to actually return to NZ.

Once a firm decision was made, the interviewees reported that it took them between two months and a year to organise their departure, depending on the complexity of their situation. The factors that influenced how much time their extraction would take included:

Who is moving to NZ? Where the person was single and moving on their own, the actual extraction plan might include nothing more than giving notice to employer and landlord and booking a flight. If, on the other hand the NZer had married a non-NZer, visas needed to be arranged for the partner which meant contacting NZ Immigration and going through that process over several months.

To facilitate job hunting in NZ, the partner might also need to have a professional qualification recognised in the NZ context which may necessitate contact with that profession’s governing body. Other considerations were to do with the length of the notice period each adult had to give or, if self-employed or a business owner, how quickly that person could wrap up their obligations and be able to leave or, continue to work from NZ.

If there were children, they might also need to apply for a NZ passport which might be more or less straight forward, depending on the citizenship rules of the country in which the child was born. If children were of school age, the parents might decide to plan their departure at the end of the school term to minimise disruption.

Animals also needed to be factored into the extraction planning as NZ has strict rules about importing pets from abroad. This meant in some cases that the interviewees had to leave their animals behind with friends who would put them on a plane once they had met the requirements set by MAF.

What to do with the house? Several interviewees owned property in the place they were living. Some decided to sell up before moving back which could add months to the time frame needed to organise their departure. Others decided to rent out their properties to enable them to move more quickly and/or retain the possibility of going back.

Sell or send? A number of interviewees actually chose not to bring their stuff back to NZ with them when they first came. Instead, a common decision was to put their things in storage for at least a year while they found their feet and decided whether or not they were going to stay. This meant some of the interviewees also had to factor in a return trip at some point to arrange transportation to NZ of the goods they wanted to keep and, to dispose of the rest. This also meant keeping bank accounts and credit cards active in order to be able to pay ongoing bills.

Staying for significant moments. Several interviewees reported that they based their extraction planning around key events in the place they were living that they didn’t want to miss. This included being in London for the Olympics as well as being able to attend certain social or family events.

Hedging your bets. Wanting to stay until they had received British Citizenship was also an important factor in extraction planning for those who were based in the UK. This was considered to be even more important in the post-Brexit context where there was a sense that the UK might be tightening the regulations all round. Many reported that even though, at this time, they didn’t want to live in the UK, they felt comforted by having the legal option to return.

The Landing Plan

The landing plan centred on deciding where they would live when they first arrived in NZ. This decision was made primarily based on the following factors and reflected the priorities of the interviewees at the time of the move:

  • Closeness to family
  • Closeness to friends
  • Job opportunities, both current and future
  • Access to a particular lifestyle
  • Affordability

For some interviewees, ranking these priorities was relatively simple and became the anchor around which all other decisions were made. Others made the initial decision on where to land based on one priority which then changed once they were back in NZ.

Many interviewees reported staying with family when they first arrived back. This could be for as short as a week or as long as two years, depending on the transitional plan (see below).

Most interviewees began exploring job opportunities while still living overseas. A number of them had considered both NZ and Australia when planning the move and reported having numerous Skype conversations with recruiters on both sides of the ditch.

Those who had done this reported that the NZ recruiters they spoke to were generally encouraging and, happy to conduct interviews via Skype and give advice on industry trends, as well as pointers on how to present their CV and translate overseas experience into the NZ context. This meant several interviewees already had a job lined up, or meetings booked, with recruiters soon after they arrived back in NZ.

Some interviewees were self-employed, or business owners, who had already put structures in place to enable them to work from NZ, with or without short trips back to their business’s home base. In most cases, they had done this before making the decision to return to NZ, driven instead by a bigger life goal of working in a location independent way.

Facebook, in particular those pages and groups targeting expats and repats, was also cited as a useful source of online information for both, practical information like which moving companies are best and, insight into the process of transition. See this blog’s facebook page for links to some of these pages and groups.

Others had done a lot of ‘on the ground’ research on trips back to NZ in the years preceding the move. There was a general sense that it is better to come and check things out for yourself, rather than believing media reports on ‘life in NZ’ which don’t always reflect the reality.

The Transitional Plan

Most of the interviewees reported that they expected their return to be a process of transition during which they would establish themselves in a new life in NZ.

Some began this experience of transition by taking the scenic route back to NZ, travelling for between two and eight months on their way back. In most cases this meant, the person chose to maintain some flexibility over their return date which meant they didn’t start making firm decisions about what they wanted to do, or where they wanted to live, until they actually arrived back in NZ.

Others, had a clear vision for the life they wanted to create in NZ and an expectation this would take several years. Some had begun working on this plan several years before they booked their flights home. For example, buying or building a new home in NZ while still abroad, which they could move into on their return.

Others wanted to take some time to try out different locations before deciding where they wanted to live. This meant they planned to live in a temporary situation – with family, housesitting, renting alone or sharing a flat – while they figured out the next step.

The desire to keep their options open, also extended to the way in which several of the interviewees chose to work when they first got back to NZ. As they had done when they first moved abroad, many of the interviewees began their job search looking for temporary or contract work. Some did this as a freelancer, while others set up a limited liability company depending on which structure was most suitable for their line of work.

Several of the interviewees had a transitional plan that included continuing to live and work some part of the year abroad. The more complex this part of the plan, the longer it generally took to put in place, especially if there were legal requirements to meet in order to make this happen. Those who had chosen to manage their transition in this way were generally open minded as to how this might play out in the future. Some seemed quite happy to be constantly on the move while others, having got settled back in to NZ life, were looking at ways to reduce the amount of time they spent away.

Complying with the taxation system in the country you have moved from, as well as NZ was also something to be addressed in the early years of relocation. This could be especially complicated for those who had assets or sources of income in different parts of the world. A good accountant, knowledgeable in international tax, was considered a must for this aspect of the transitional plan.

The Long Term Plan

A number of interviewees reported that they deliberately chose not to have a long term plan because they preferred to take life as it comes and figure things out one step at a time. Interviewees with this orientation reported the importance of being experience led and staying open to changing your mind.

Others though, had a very clear sense of the life they wanted to live in the bigger sense and, a very clear understanding of how this move to NZ, at this particular time, contributed to them achieving that goal. In some cases this was a very tangible goal e.g. building an off grid house which they would eventually run as a retreat.

In others, it was a more of sense of the kind of life they wanted to lead and the belief that being in NZ at this time was an important part of that journey. For some, NZ was essentially the final stop on that journey while many saw their relationship to NZ as more of a revolving door – one they would walk through many more times in the future.

This story was created by Tricia Alach, creator of the How To Have A Happy Homecoming blog, check it out for more stories of Kiwis coming home and resources for making a smooth transition back.  

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